A SATURDAY WITH INDRAN – SHARING SOME MEMORIES.

Indrakumar Kulasingam (Kula to his friends) passed away peacefully on 15 May, 2012, aged 56 years. His passing will be felt by many around the world especially by his lovely wife Raji, his family and close friends, and that motley Band of Brothers who make up the Class of 71 from St Thomas’ College Mount Lavinia.

The three of us spent a mellow Saturday evening (into Sunday morning) in the company of Indran, Raji and Peter Vanniasingham in Auckland on 21 April. We travelled to NZ so that we could spend a few hours with the man who eventually brought us, the Class of 71, together after almost 40 years of going on our various separate life journeys post STC.

Our travel to NZ to be with him was triggered by his matter of fact e-mail sent to all the members of the Class of 71 bidding them adieu.

But there is a story that leads to this, and for Indran and posterity, we d like to tell it.

Our re-collections go back to a magic Saturday evening in May 2011 at Darling Harbour, Sydney when a number of the STC Australia/NZ connection met and broke bread together fondly recollecting tales of  “derring-do” from their time at the ‘School by the Sea’. The catalyst for the gathering was Indran who, greatly assisted by his assorted Sydney accomplices, had pulled the evening together. The three of us, along with Cader and Varney, ended up at Jilla’s hotel later that evening – drinking expensive shots paid for by Jilla of course. I think it was then that we came to the realisation that we would never have reconnected as a group without Indran’s hard work, persistence and intervention.

A number of us made a decision that day, shamed into it by Indran, to support T.A. Mendis at the OBA Dance in Melbourne in the coming August. Indran flew in from NZ with his lovely wife by his side, his sole reason in being there was to support his class-mate (Trevor Mendis) who is the current President of the STC OBA in Melbourne. It tells you something special about this man. He travelled all that distance to attend an OBA

dinner dance simply to support a mate!

We had a great time together often breaking to the reception area outside of the dance hall to swap more stories of our halcyon days together at Galkissa.

On that night a broad plan was hatched to make a big push to celebrate the 50th Anniversary of the year that most of us started school at Mount, in 1963. 2013 was an achievable target and the planning commenced. We arranged to meet in Melbourne end of February to refine plans. Manilal de Mel was to be there as our ‘man from Colombo’.

In between time e-mails and much information was swapped in attempts to nail down dates for 2013. We finally arrived at a tentative date of 10 Mar 2013, the day after the ‘Big Match’ as the date that we’d all once again gather in Mount Lavinia, possibly for the last time, as a group.

On 26 Feb ‘12, at Kilsyth on the outer fringe of Melbourne, we enjoyed a delicious Lankan smorgasbord lunch overseen by Graham Blaze, younger brother of Hans. Indran however seemed very quiet and off-colour suffering with what appeared to be a smoker’s cough.

He brushed off concerns by his mates suggesting that it was just a minor throat infection, nothing to be worried about. He was more concerned for Manilal who had to return to Colombo urgently due to a family member’s illness. He was also focussed on getting details into place for our ‘Galkissa Here We Come Again’ proposed Mar 2013 event.

But an email sent to all his class mates on the 5th of April changed everything.

Indran wrote us all explaining, in that most matter of fact manner, that he had inoperable cancer and would not see the year out! His main concern was passing on his database for the Class of 1971, a project he had commenced in 2005, and to thank Manilal and Rohan Jayasinghe for taking over this onerous task.

To say that the news shocked all of us would be the understatement of the year. We three decided very quickly that we just had to go visit him at least once more and flew into Auckland together. We were met at the Airport by Peter Van who very

generously hosted us a lunch at the waterfront – another story for another day – before we visited Indran and Raji at home for delicious rice, curries and ‘pol sambol’ dinner. Indran gave us notice that he intended to replicate a famous “tuck shop staple” to remind us of one of the great adolescent treats we d all shared so long ago!

According to Raji, Indran’s spirits picked up greatly that Saturday afternoon knowing we were arriving. We in turn were honoured that our presence had revived him sufficiently and allowed him to regain his wit and full repartee for the entire time we were there.

It was a fantastic evening, all of us discussing everything from how many Hatch brothers there had been in college, to how Peter V had been slapped by “LaJBa”, to the big fights that we’d been able to view close up between some of the “giants” of our Class of 71!

Somewhere in there, the merits of a quality education may even have been discussed!!

Late in the evening Peter V told us a tale about Indran and the great work he had done in bringing to account a huge fraud perpetrated by Directors of a New Zealand company named Bridgecorp. Bridgecorp defrauded 14,500 odd New Zealanders for close to $500 Mil NZ dollars.

It was Indran, the internal audit and risk manager, who discovered the fraud and brought it to the attention of the regulatory authorities – thereby effectively sentenced himself to18 months in court leading the evidentiary effort and inviting on himself huge levels of stress in bringing the crooked company directors to justice. He couldn’t share this information with anyone as he was sworn to secrecy.

It was possibly associated stress that led to Indran’s illness. Sadly we will never know.

But what we do know now, was that we had a quiet and unassuming hero of a class-mate. An ethical and just man who showed enormous integrity, real moral courage, great professionalism and a devotion to duty that clearly went above and beyond what was required of him; these are values we hope we all have when it comes to the crunch. But Indran amply demonstrated them under extreme duress. He was our selfless hero.

We said fond farewells that evening and again the next morning. Hoping against hope that it was all just a bad dream. And that Indran would show up, as planned on March 2013 in Colombo to kick off celebrations commemorating 50 years since we started at our School by the Sea. That is now not to be.

All of us need to make real efforts to keep in touch and try our darndest to be there next March. We need to remember those who’ve gone before us at this time.

We need to honour Indran and his ‘priceless gift’ – Manilal’s term – which in his own humble way, he bequeathed to ALL OF US, to make of it what we might.

Esto Perpetua

F.Grigson, J.Jilla, T.A.Mendis.

 

PANSY GAUDER: A Life of Faith & Service

Article from the Island Newspaper, Written By: Rohan Wijesinha

When Pansy Gauder’s last whispered breath sped her life to eternal realms, it brought to an end not only the mortal existence of a very special lady, but also severed the final link of a Golden Age of service to St. Thomas’ College, Mount Lavinia (STC). For even at its zenith, in the halcyon days of Canon R. S. De Saram, the name of Gauder was as well known as his; synonymous with the care of the fortunate boys of that school. In fact, I would hazard a guess that never before in the history of a school have a husband and wife dedicated over a half a century of their married lives to the service of a particular educational institution.

Shelton Gauder, Pansy’s husband, had his schooling at St. Thomas’ College, excelling at cricket, and captaining the College XI in 1933. On leaving school, he continued to serve the College in several capacities, from Cricket Coach to Bursar to Grocery Supplier to the College Boarding. Thomians of that era will well remember his delivery truck that would announce its approach, so it is said, as it rattled and banged its way, as far as from the Dehiwala Junction! But, perhaps, his best service to his alma mater was in his choice of bride, for Pansy embraced St. Thomas’ College and its schoolboys as though they were her own.

Pansy Gauder ran the College Tuck Shop and was Matron in charge of the College Kitchens. She catered to the dietary needs of generations of Thomians, and they thrived on it. I shall leave it to Old Thomians of that age to write more on that, but I well remember as a schoolboy cricketer, albeit for another school,

going to the Dining Hall for meals and being summoned to the kitchens. There, ‘Aunty’Pansy would quickly ease my awkwardness, as I was unsure as to how to greet her in her ‘official’ capacity. Much to the chagrin of my teammates, a larger portion of dinner or fruit would somehow appear, not only on my plate, but also on those of young Tissera and Dambawinne, fellow sons of old boys of STC, who were now playing for the visiting side!

As for her culinary skills at home, her lamprais and Christmas cake and love cake and short eats and desserts and milk wine, they were legendary and sought by all. As a child, and even when older, my first stop would be to the kitchen, where inevitably Pansy was cooking, and it was rare to walk out without munching on something delicious, with a cold drink in other hand.

For I had the privilege of knowing the Gauders away from STC (though their home, No. 3, College Avenue, was right next door). In fact, I have known Pansy for all of my life, over five decades now. Shelton was my Godfather. He always claimed, with accompanying guffaw, that he was never given any forewarning of the impending responsibility but that when the Chaplain of STC, the Reverend Roy Bowyer Yin, called for the Godparents to step forward, my father had shoved him hence! Interestingly, my other Godfather, Alex Wijesinha, narrated the same tale! But whatever the circumstances of their appointment, I was honoured by my father’s conscripted choices, the both of them. I could not have hoped for better.

I was remembered on my every birthday, the cards written in Aunty Pansy’s neat style. And when Uncle Shelton passed away, over a decade ago, she still never forgot though the ownership of the responsibility became somewhat blurred with time. In fact, when I last went to see her, I was warned that she may not recognize me. Little had I to worry. Propped in her chair, she listened to my voluble greeting, and with gentle smile turned to her carer and said, “My Godson”. I was doubly honoured.

Pansy Gauder was always tolerant of the nonsenses of growing youth, unafraid to express her displeasure when it warranted and always ready with praise when it was due. A fine sense of humour, no doubt honed by generations of young Thomians, helped. Why, it is even well known that “Satan” was one of her favourites – to the very end!
An avid cricket fan, Pansy Gauder would be a regular at the Royal – Thomian, even in her early 90s, and Sri Lanka playing an international match had her glued to the television.

And there was not just Aunty Pansy and Uncle Shelton at No. 3, but their daughters, Corinna and Sandra, who both shared in their parents’ good humour and generous hospitality. Inevitably, Corinna married a Thomian, Piyasena Obeysekera, known as “Obey” to his friends, and he proved a tower of strength to the family, and to Pansy in her final years. Corinna’s passion was collecting ancient maps and manuscripts on Sri Lanka. Her collection, and knowledge of the subject, had no parallel.

Sandy, though confined to a wheelchair for most of her life, was as joyous a human being as any who has walked this Earth. She loved life with an exuberance borne of a child who has been loved unconditionally by her family and friends, and she was the match of any when it came to Scrabble and quick wit. Sandy was a blessed joy to all who had the pleasure of knowing her.

Shelton and Pansy Gauder suffered the saddest fate that can be endured by parents; the premature death of both of their children. Where lesser beings would have succumbed to the bitterness of their grief, they carried on, now concentrating their love and care on their granddaughter, Sharmin. She, in turn, adored them, and they would have been proud of the quiet dignity and grace with which she carried out the last rites of her grandmother, being with her at the end, and scattering her ashes in the ocean in front of her beloved College.

Through all of the tragedy in their lives, Shelton and Pansy Gauder stayed true to their faith and never questioned the adversities and iniquities that they were faced with. There was no recrimination or bitterness, just an acceptance that this was all part of a greater, divine plan. And herein lies their true worth. They never lost sight of the blessings that life had endowed them with – Corinna, Sandra, Sharmin, Obey, and the latest addition to the Gauder legacy, little Pashoo, the light in her Great Grandmother’s eye.

As Pansy Gauder’s last breath lifted her spirit away from her body, I have no doubt that it took her straight into the care of the God that she served so faithfully in life, and awaiting her there would be her husband and her daughters, now beyond the pain and suffering of this mortal life; together again, and for always, in the paradise of their love and faith.

With a song in their hearts Thomian choir looks beyond our shores

Thomian_ChoirBy Keshara Hallock  From the Sunday Times Newspaper

 

“Let all the world in every corner sing”, the sound of the S. Thomas’ College Mount Lavinia choir soars high into the rafters of The Chapel of the Transfiguration.

This chapel is at the core of Thomian life. In the words of the College Warden Professor Indra De Soysa, “The chapel is a centrepiece for the school which was in fact built around

it.” It will be the location for STC’s much anticipated Festival of Choral Music, a collaboration of the chapel choir with Old Thomians and celebrated professional musicians the De Lanerolle Brothers-Rohan and Isha

n, on Sunday September 16, at 6 p.m. The concert is a fund raising initiative marking the inauguration of “The Canon Roy Yin Choir Fund”. The fund was launched primarily to provide the necessary funds for the Chapel Choir to take their music to more distant shores.

The Choir along with the De Lanerolle Brothers getting ready for the Festival of Choral Music

The Thomian choir, established in 1854 and unique in that it sings without a conductor, has been directed by a number of esteemed musicians amongst them of course Canon Roy Yin, as well as the late Revd Lucian G. B. Fernando and Russel Bartholomeusz. Under the leadership of these men, the choir has gained a reputation for choral excellence. Most recently, the choir is trained by Vinodh Senadheera, who himself studied under Mr. Bartholomeusz. For Mr. Senadheera, “the main objective of the choral festival is to hopefully enable us to go overseas with the De Lanerolle brothers. We have a choir of about 40, so a trip would require funding. It is good for the choristers to see other choirs and to hear them sing. For me, I would love the boys to see choirs such as those of St. Paul’s Cathedral, Westminster and of Kings College Cambridge. It would be nice to watch their discipline- the way they sing and conduct themselves.”

It is hoped that the first College Choir tour will be to Singapore next year, a significant choice of destination as this is where the late Revd Canon Roy Lin spent his final years, before his death in 2010. The College is indebted to Yin as the director who introduced the now well established and much loved Festival of Nine Lessons and Carols during Advent which is based on the annual service at Kings College, Cambridge where he served as a Chaplain.

The involvement of the De Lanerolle brothers is something that makes both the September service and future choir tours particularly exciting for the College Choir and the Warden duly notes that St. Thomas’ “is very grateful to the brothers and fortunate to have them as ambassadors around the world.” However, for the brothers themselves, the opportunity seems equally important. Rohan adds, “The choir has been in existence for such a long time and when we were performing in Germany, we began to think how nice it would be to get them to sing abroad.” Ishan adds, “It is always a pleasure to do something for STC where the Chapel stands tall as a focal point.

“The Festival will include well known Anthems and Hymns as well as a selection of readings from the Holy Scriptures. Mr. Senadheera comments, “I have always wanted to do something like this. We always begin a service by singing hymns, this is where the boys learn hymns and when they leave they remain close to the boys’ hearts. Thus, the service will include well loved Thomian hymns. It should be a very solemn and moving service where we can bring out the spiritual context of the hymns in the programme.”

Entrance to the service will be by programme priced at Rs. 750 which will be available at Commons Cafe, Park Street Mews and the STCML OBA Secretariat, Mount Lavinia.